Mistress Heather's High Castle


The darker side of love: Dominance and submission. My thoughts thereon, my feelings, fantasies, and realities. You will not like all of it. At least you shouldn't. I don't and I'm writing it.

Ask me anything, or give me advice...I don't bite.

Submit to me. Naught else could be appropriate for Mistress H
hard2please72:

bdsmbeautifullybound:

Dominant / submissive …… Really ?
I think one of the problems with the some of the modern subs and Dominants, is that BDSM and the power-exchange have been turned into porn and kink, putting a casual spin on it, and now everyone is a damn sub, everyone is a damn Dominant, and there is no real commitment, so they just move on to the next individual.
There are countless numbers of subs AND Dominants, who have a strong tendency to believe rough sex equals submission, and I cannot even count how many Dominant males have claimed to be Dominant, but every question asked to them about D/s or M/s tends to be answered with a sexual inference that indicates that they knew little or nothing about really being a Dominant, or subs who thought they were going to get to fuck, however, they do not even know how to sweep a floor or provide service in an acceptable way. They call themselves slaves and subs, yet they have zero training or knowledge about what they are even claiming to be.
Some of these subs or slaves fill out their profiles on the Internet and other forms of social media, thinking and/or believing “Well, I like to have my hair grabbed and my ass smacked so, I am a submissive,” but they don’t like cleaning house, cooking for their dominant or owners, or giving any other kind of service so really, as they are just a casual bottom.
Then, some Dominants are clueless too, and do not know how to spot a real submissive, because they are not real Dominants, because they just merely know they like to smack ass while they are fucking.
Folks! That is not BDSM, that is just plain ole sex! The power-exchange and BDSM was once an incredibly spiritual journey upon which the majority of participants embarked with a deep sense of honor and respect, and currently, with everything from the BBC madness to the world of porn, D/s and M/s seems to have disappeared under the ubiquitous umbrella of BDSM, and now, this what some subs and dominants think submitting and dominating consists of; a sub splitting his or her legs or spreading eagle.
That is not submission or dominance, that is just pure fucking! Perhaps, it is because I am into the power-exchange, like I am into relationships, and I see BDSM as a side product of that relationship, just as sex would be in the traditional sense, and now, it seems to have undergone a significant shifting, because currently, it is all sex, rope and blood with strangers and very little of the power-exchange dynamic.
Also, IMHO, if a submissive experiences fears or doubts concerning what a Dominant is asking them to do, then possibly the Dominant has not really taken the time to completely gain and develop the submissive’s full trust.
Author: David Coates

Couldn’t have said it better myself…

hard2please72:

bdsmbeautifullybound:

Dominant / submissive …… Really ?

I think one of the problems with the some of the modern subs and Dominants, is that BDSM and the power-exchange have been turned into porn and kink, putting a casual spin on it, and now everyone is a damn sub, everyone is a damn Dominant, and there is no real commitment, so they just move on to the next individual.

There are countless numbers of subs AND Dominants, who have a strong tendency to believe rough sex equals submission, and I cannot even count how many Dominant males have claimed to be Dominant, but every question asked to them about D/s or M/s tends to be answered with a sexual inference that indicates that they knew little or nothing about really being a Dominant, or subs who thought they were going to get to fuck, however, they do not even know how to sweep a floor or provide service in an acceptable way. They call themselves slaves and subs, yet they have zero training or knowledge about what they are even claiming to be.

Some of these subs or slaves fill out their profiles on the Internet and other forms of social media, thinking and/or believing “Well, I like to have my hair grabbed and my ass smacked so, I am a submissive,” but they don’t like cleaning house, cooking for their dominant or owners, or giving any other kind of service so really, as they are just a casual bottom.

Then, some Dominants are clueless too, and do not know how to spot a real submissive, because they are not real Dominants, because they just merely know they like to smack ass while they are fucking.

Folks! That is not BDSM, that is just plain ole sex!
The power-exchange and BDSM was once an incredibly spiritual journey upon which the majority of participants embarked with a deep sense of honor and respect, and currently, with everything from the BBC madness to the world of porn, D/s and M/s seems to have disappeared under the ubiquitous umbrella of BDSM, and now, this what some subs and dominants think submitting and dominating consists of; a sub splitting his or her legs or spreading eagle.

That is not submission or dominance, that is just pure fucking!
Perhaps, it is because I am into the power-exchange, like I am into relationships, and I see BDSM as a side product of that relationship, just as sex would be in the traditional sense, and now, it seems to have undergone a significant shifting, because currently, it is all sex, rope and blood with strangers and very little of the power-exchange dynamic.

Also, IMHO, if a submissive experiences fears or doubts concerning what a Dominant is asking them to do, then possibly the Dominant has not really taken the time to completely gain and develop the submissive’s full trust.

Author: David Coates

Couldn’t have said it better myself…

Source: bdsmbeautifullybound

ms-woodsworld

Ducky for you, sweetie.  Have a great night!

Long day of fighting the native flora and fauna, and I need a bath in the worst way.

Tagged: lbtland before timeducky

ms-woodsworld:

petmistress:

ms-woodsworld:

I absolutely love Ducky. Yep. Yep. Yep!

You are indeed the perfect friend if you know Ducky.  I have a plushie of Ducky!  Yep.  Yep.  Yep!

She’s my favorite. I say, “Yep. Yep. Yep”, all of the time and my 21 yo is the only one who gets it. *smiles* I swear, we were separated at birth, by a few years, and parents, and states, and months, but who pays attention to all of that?

**hug**  I feel it, too.  Oh, and all my daughters played with little dinosaurs and little dalmatians instead of dolls.  I’m one hell of a good role model, evidently.  At least they’re mostly happy kids.  Not so much the one that identified as Cera, but we’re working on her gradually to be happy.

Source: theanimatedwonders

ms-woodsworld:

I absolutely love Ducky. Yep. Yep. Yep!

You are indeed the perfect friend if you know Ducky.  I have a plushie of Ducky!  Yep.  Yep.  Yep!

Source: theanimatedwonders

girlsbydaylight:

プリンセス by チヤキ on pixiv

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gayobamafanfiction:

neilnevins:

disneydrooler:

laughing because she is.

i actually did laugh when I saw this in theaters because this is a very real guilt tactic parents use and it’s 100% effective

its called gaslighting http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting

Source: elsakingdom

misandry-mermaid:

youngassoul:

Street harassment w Xena

Every girl deserves Xena as a bestie.

Source: youngassoul

surfcontra:

disgustinganimals:

youthxcrew69:

THIS IS A CAT IN A HALLOWEEN COSTUME PLAYING WITH A TINY PUMPKIN THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT

IT’S NOT EVEN OCTOBER

IT’S ALWAYS OCTOBER

My reaction when they changed October from the eighth month to the tenth month and we had to wait a whole extra two months.  I declared October forever. 
Evidently I have minions now. 
That’s so nice.
—Heather Elphaba

surfcontra:

disgustinganimals:

youthxcrew69:

THIS IS A CAT IN A HALLOWEEN COSTUME PLAYING WITH A TINY PUMPKIN THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT

IT’S NOT EVEN OCTOBER

IT’S ALWAYS OCTOBER

My reaction when they changed October from the eighth month to the tenth month and we had to wait a whole extra two months.  I declared October forever. 

Evidently I have minions now. 

That’s so nice.

—Heather Elphaba

Source: spybook

filialunae94:

petmistress:

filialunae94:

molangg:

=^● ⋏ ●^= i’ve turned into a cat 

Me next!

I’d even buy these for you, sweetie!

Ooo yay! :3 
I would want the whole get up though heehee.
~Katie Kitten

I can never seem to deny you anything.  Who’s the D and who’s the s in this relationship, anyway?  —Miss Heather

filialunae94:

petmistress:

filialunae94:

molangg:

=^● ⋏ ●^= i’ve turned into a cat 

Me next!

I’d even buy these for you, sweetie!

Ooo yay! :3 

I would want the whole get up though heehee.

~Katie Kitten

I can never seem to deny you anything.  Who’s the D and who’s the s in this relationship, anyway?  —Miss Heather

Source: molangg

filialunae94:

lesbianmisogynist:

filialunae94:

petmistress:

Of course I’d buy these for you, too, kitten.  Unless I changed my mind and had to have them myself.  Too bad we are not the same size.

They’d probably be better on you, love. I’m terrible in heels.

You can learn. Heels with locks tend to be excellent teachers. 

I would learn, or get real comfortable crawling around everywhere, huh? :)
Although I’m guessing either outcome would be acceptable, no?

I love wearing them, kitten, so no worries.  You can have the cute little kitten paws we saw earlier.  I like the idea of you coming in on little cat feet.
—Miss Heather

filialunae94:

lesbianmisogynist:

filialunae94:

petmistress:

Of course I’d buy these for you, too, kitten.  Unless I changed my mind and had to have them myself.  Too bad we are not the same size.

They’d probably be better on you, love. I’m terrible in heels.

You can learn. Heels with locks tend to be excellent teachers. 

I would learn, or get real comfortable crawling around everywhere, huh? :)

Although I’m guessing either outcome would be acceptable, no?

I love wearing them, kitten, so no worries.  You can have the cute little kitten paws we saw earlier.  I like the idea of you coming in on little cat feet.

—Miss Heather

Source: luxury-andfashion

ms-woodsworld:

randomlittlespark:

When you find out a mutual follow has lots of followers

What is “lots of followers”? What’s lots of followers to one, isn’t to another, and it should never be about the number of followers you do or don’t have, but that you’re being true to yourself. *shrugs* my opinion anyway…we can agree to disagree if you feel otherwise.

I talked with my best friend about this a while back and we agreed we weren’t going to do milestone posts anymore.  I think we have about the same amount of followers.  She’s been on tumblr a few months less than me, but just bein’ honest, if I had to choose between following my blog and following hers, I’d chose hers.  It makes me feel good, it lets me feel my sadness, and it inspires me.  Virtually every day that I look in, some or all of these things and that’s good.

Anyway, as to followers: so we weren’t going to do milestone posts, but me, being me, posted a few more milestones.  I think the 5,000 “celebration” post will deff be my last one.  I have done a few things that have caused me to bleed followers like Mercutio on a bad day, and I am happier because I have tailored my blog to even more clearly reflect me—the me I am today—versus the me I was when I started this li’l blog.

I’m happy with it at the moment but it will continue to change.  Strangely, I’ve attracted more followers than I’ve lost, so maybe serendipity will allow me to reach even more wonderful people.

I don’t even know where this is going, but fasten your seat belts…

Its going to be a bumpy flight.

—Miss Heather

Source: stuckindisney

Source: radtracks

mostly harmless

mostly harmless

Source: sub69grey

I wish I had more opportunities to dress up like Tinkerbell.  I do her in the Disney marathon, or Minnie, but I get so sweaty that the look does not stay fresh when I finally get to the point where the face-character picture poses are.
—Heather Tinkerbell

I wish I had more opportunities to dress up like Tinkerbell.  I do her in the Disney marathon, or Minnie, but I get so sweaty that the look does not stay fresh when I finally get to the point where the face-character picture poses are.

—Heather Tinkerbell

Source: workaholicatrest

fantasy-scifi:

.:Rubina:.
by MarioTeodosio

fantasy-scifi:

.:Rubina:.
by MarioTeodosio

Source: fantasy-scifi